Meet Kolbe
Hello.
I’m Kolbe.
I’m a child of God, follower of Jesus, husband, father, artist, disillusioned-yet-dreaming, a mess, trying my best, a wounded healer, and a compassionate guide for the fellow aching heart on the road to wholeness that’s both thoughtful and playful.
Professionally, I’m a Catholic somatic psychotherapist helping soul-weary clients heal trauma, anxiety, and addiction through embodied, Spirit-led care.
Rooted in the wisdom of the body, Catholic tradition, and the nervous system, my work bridges neuroscience and mysticism, parts work and prayer, presence and the pain we often avoid.
Shaped by St. John Paul II, Teresa of Avila, Gendlin’s felt sense, and the ache in a Noah Gundersen song, I don’t rush your healing—I accompany it.
This is trauma care in the key of the Eucharist.
Slow. Relational. Incarnational.
For those restless and longing to come home to themselves, their body, and to God, I’m here to journey with you when you’re ready.

Why I’m Here
I’ve touched the deep wounds in my life and emerged from the shadows—alive.
Now I’m here to hold space for you, as others did for me.
To be real, to laugh and cry, to listen and learn, to create, to mess up, to grow, to play—
to be truly with you.
The Incarnation grounds me in this calling—teaching me to be present in the world, but not of it.
In a culture that values product over presence, I crave what is real.
I believe healing is closer than we think—more present than the day itself. His name is Jesus.
When I pray, “Thy Kingdom come, Thy will be done,”
I’m asking the Spirit to move us—body and soul—to heal our world from the inside out.
I’ve come to see the body as the place where healing begins.
It’s where we feel, hold, and release pain.
Where we return, reconnect, love, and are made new.
The body is the bridge to the heart,
the motor for change,
the place where the Holy Trinity finds room to dwell.
Too often we forget: we are our bodies.
I pray and practice to remember—
and to guide others in remembering, too.
My Journey
I’m what some might call a wounded healer.
My own healing has shaped the ear, voice, and presence I now offer as a psychotherapist, guide, and teacher. I've faced my wounds, brought them to Jesus with the right support, and watched Him transform those broken places into spaces of refuge—for me, and now, for those I accompany. My wounds are now my medicine.
In short: I’ve been through it, myself. More importantly, I know there’s a way—unique to you—to flourishing and wholeness, too.
So why did I become a therapist, a guide—a wounded healer of sorts?
Because I know how trauma can sever connection—within ourselves, with God, and with the people we love most.
And I know, just as truly, the hope of healing those ruptures.
Like every human being, I’ve lived through moments too overwhelming for my nervous system to process—both inside and outside the home. Over time, I carried layers of trauma in my body. Left unprocessed, they activated a web of burdens I’ve had to slowly unlearn, integrate, and release.
And I’m grateful. That path—while hard—led me here.
For a long time, my nervous system did what it knew to survive. I found safety in piety, perfectionism, performance, and a hyper-reliance on the approval of others. These strategies worked—for a while. But they also pulled me away from my inner wisdom: my body, emotions, intuition, and sense of self. The more I tried to control my life, the more it seemed to slip through my fingers.
Still, God met me there.
Slowly, the Holy Spirit drew me into healing—through grounded people and safe places: therapy, mentorship, nature, reconnecting with my body, somatic movement, deep prayer, and meaningful community. Over time, I built a haven within. I learned to listen to my nervous system, release stored trauma, and walk forward with new awareness, skills, and meaning.
By softening in the body, my mind became more spacious—more able to flow with the Holy Spirit’s daily promptings.
All of this unfolded alongside the outer terrain of life: high school, college, marriage, parenthood, and grad school.
Healing and living aren’t separate paths. They’re one.
And I’m still healing (I’d be naive to say otherwise). But I’ve come far enough to walk this road with others—humbly and with courage. Like those who guided me, I now offer a place of rest for the weary and burdened.
Now, I get to witness the mystery of holding space.
Every day, my gratitude deepens—as my pain, and the pain of others, continues to reveal its truest form: not as a curse, but as a teacher. A sacred invitation into what it means to be human—tender, resilient, and always becoming who we are.
How I Show Up in My Work
As I have received, so I also wish to give.
I’ve had the honor of working with children, adolescents, and adults—from ages 6 to 70—who are navigating the impacts of childhood sexual abuse, neglect, sexual assault, family separation, divorce, grief, PTSD, Complex PTSD, and trauma-related anxiety, depression, and dissociation.
While I always show up with attuned presence for each client’s unique process, I keep my own story close by—held gently off to the side. Not to center myself, but in case a part of it becomes useful in creating safety, resonance, or hope. In each session, I bring my clinical training in one hand, and the humanity of my lived experience in the other. My focus remains fully on my client—on co-creating a therapeutic space that is authentic, relational, and deeply humane.
Throughout the arc of our work together, I pay careful attention to where a client’s process may feel stuck or stagnant. From there, I draw on tools from neuroscience, evidence-based psychology, psychosomatic integration, mindful movement, breathwork, and healing prayer—integrating these modalities in a way that’s responsive to each person’s story and needs.
In other words, my hope is that therapy becomes a sacred space that empowers the restoration of the whole person:
nervous system, mind, heart, spirit, relationships, and way of life.

Values that inform my work
Christocentricism
Personalism
Co-Regulation
Nourishment
Integration
Transformation
Balance
Resilience
Teachers that inform my work
Carl Rogers | Eugene Gendlin | Bessel Van der Kolk | Bonnie Badenoch | Dan Siegel | Allen Schore | Richard Schwartz | Peter Levine | Conrad Baars | Carl Jung | Arielle Schwartz | Deb Dana | Jan Winhall | Mary Main | Diana Fosha | Iain McGilchrist | Francis Weller | Wendell Berry | Christopher Dawson | Emmy van Deurzen | Dietrich Von Hildebrand | Therese of Lisieux | Teresa of Avila | Edith Stein | Karol Wojtyla | Henri J.M. Nouwen | Thomas Merton | Jacque Phillippe
Some of what I enjoy
I love a boring, ordinary life. In my free time, I love sharing the ritual of coffee with friends and family, curating cozy, nourishing spaces to soften into experience and story, and letting my inner child of God play among the crests of sea and land.
I also enjoy dancing and cooking with my wife, traveling, biking and picnicking as a family, tinkering with something old, or getting lost in a good book.
Lately, I’ve been spending more time behind the lens and brush—exploring photography and the practice of Christian iconography.

Wondering how we might work together?
If you’d like to explore psychotherapy, collaborate on an offering, or inquire for more information, please fill out this form, or reach out by phone or email, and I can be in touch with you soon.