Belonging Beyond Trauma

Therapy & coaching for complex trauma through relational, somatic, & spiritual attunement

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Born from generations of ache and my own return to wholeness, My work here began when someone helped me come home to my body. Now I help others do the same, reconnecting to what’s real, alive, and already here.

Hello.

I’m Kolbe.

I’m a son, spouse, father, survivor, therapist, writer, & speaker.

I’m here to hold space for you in ways perhaps no one ever has, to walk with you as you reconnect from the ground up and the inside out. My hope is that through our work, you’ll rediscover a deep sense of belonging within yourself, with others, and with the Divine.

I offer a specialized approach through a relational, sacred, and embodied process where the nervous system softens in Truth and Grace, and the body becomes a bridge for deep insight, healing, and growth. This kind of accompaniment often brings about the very changes we’ve longed for in mind, body, and relationships, but struggled to achieve on our own.

However you’re showing up, I hope something here offers you a soothing balm for your personal journey of healing.

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My Offerings

I’m here to Walk with you as you heal from the ground up, inside and out.

  • For California residents seeking licensed therapy, I provide trauma-informed, body-centered psychotherapy rooted in neuroscience, attachment, and Catholic spirituality. Together we tend to wounds of trauma, anxiety, depression, addiction, and dissociation with compassion and depth. I practice as an Associate Professional Clinical Counselor #18799 & Associate Marriage & Family Therapist #153353 through the Catholic Therapy Center. Clinical Supervision is with Dr. Sean Tobin, PsyD 33387

  • For those outside California or seeking a non-clinical space, I offer 1:1 coaching/mentorship. My sessions meet you where you’re at, offering accompaniment in your goals for ongoing healing in your recovery from all kinds of trauma. My approach to mentorship is unique in that they weave together Polyvagal theory, somatic practice, IFS parts work, and healing prayer to support real human encounter and integration for you as a whole person.

  • Healing deepens in community. I host seasonal group experiences - such as Trauma & Addiction Recovery and Incarnational Healing groups - where shame and complex trauma soften in the the collective creation of a felt-sense of safety, presence, and nonjudgmental acceptance. Come explore a blessed grace that transcends any one person’s grief and trauma in the bond of Christ-centered healing care and compassion.

  • My programs offer structured pathways into healing at your own pace. Blending teaching, guided practices, and contemplative integration, these programs invite you to regulate your nervous system, re-inhabit your body, rediscover your parts, and encounter Christ in the midst of it all.

  • Through journals, articles, and reflections, I share stories, practices, and insights at the crossroads of psychology, spirituality, and embodiment. My writing is an invitation to slow down, reflect, and enter the ongoing work of healing the culture from the inside out.

My Methodology
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I practice clinically as an Associate Professional Clinical Counselor #18799 & Associate Marriage & Family Therapist #153353 through the Catholic Therapy Center. Clinical Supervision is with Dr. Sean Tobin, PsyD 33387

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Regulate Your Nervous System. Reconnect within.

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New Offerings

I have two offerings going live soon and I’m excited to share these with you.

New FREE Program

Coming Home: An Introduction to Incarnational Healing

A guided 5 week program that offers a way into nervous system formation, interior integration, and spiritual renewal.

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I’ve been listening.

You carry a body that remembers what the mind cannot always name. You ache for safety, grounding, and a way of prayer that doesn’t bypass the nervous system but welcomes it into Christ’s healing embrace.

That is why I created Coming Home: An Introduction to Incarnational Healing.
A 5-week guided program designed for those living with the effects of complex trauma, it brings together the best of modern neuroscience, somatic practice, and the deep well of Catholic spirituality. Each step offers both teaching and embodied practice, so you can learn to dwell safely in your own body again and encounter Christ not in spite of, but through your lived humanity.

New Group

Trauma & Sexual Addiction Group

A seasonal therapy group for men seeking healing and transformation rooted in science & centered on Christ

We're Collecting Interest

I’ve also been receiving special interest in a men’s group:

What I hear in men again and again is this:
You’re tired of white-knuckling through cycles of lust, secrecy, or compulsive patterns. You long for a place that doesn’t just tell you to “try harder,” but meets you with compassion, accountability, and a path of real change.

Our Trauma & Sexual Addiction Men’s Group is built for that need.
It’s a neuroscience-backed, faith-tailored space where men can name their struggles, retrain their nervous systems, and discover freedom in Christ together. Here, you don’t have to choose between being a man of faith and being honest about your wounds—you can be both. Healing becomes a process of reclaiming your body, your relationships, and your dignity.

Testimonials

  • “My time with Kolbe has given me additional tools to practice life not in my head but in my body. Kolbe's therapy helped me understand how I was in survival mode and that those parts of me have messages for my growth.”

    anonymous client

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    “Kolbe creates a safe, open space that made it easy for me to be honest and dig deep. He helped me resolve the trauma occurring in my daily life. His patience, directness, and genuine care have been truly transformative.”

    anonymous client

  • "Our sessions not only shifted my perspective but also instilled a sense of resilience and hope. I feel blessed to have had the opportunity to work with a therapist as exceptional as Kolbe.”

    anonymous client

  • "I’m deeply grateful for the profound impact Kolbe had on my life. His true presence, guidance, empathetic ear, and insight helped me navigate darkness and anger, empowering me to reclaim my life."

    anonymous client

  • "Connecting with my body helped me to step away from living in my head, find where I was stuck, and resolve the blockage. I'm now much more aware of how I avoid feelings and I'm less afraid to take the steps to listen to what is stored inside of me."

    anonymous client

  • "Kolbe's gentleness and trustful professionalism has deepened my healing journey."

    anonymous client

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